The Reading Room

Recent writings from The Ritual of Reading—essays, reflections and literary rituals for a more attentive life.

French Savoir-Vivre: An Etiquette That Survived the Revolution

Jacques Gandouin, Le Petit Larousse du Savoir-vivre & Republican elegance…

In Defense of Good Manners: Why Etiquette is the Secret to Modern Freedom

February Literary Mood Board • The Art of Good Manners, Part I…

Fiction as Self-Care: 3 Comforting Books for a Relaxing Winter

Last Tuesday, I turned down an invitation to a gallery opening—the kind of event I usually love—and…

The Art of Re-Reading: 3 Books on Intent and Grounding

Returning to the Basics: Why I’m Re-reading My Bookshelf in 2026 January arrived this year not as a…

January Literary Mood Board: Slow Reading & Bookish Self-Care

A Gentle January: Literature, Fireplaces and the Art of Slowing Down When the Christmas ornaments go…

Lesley Blanch’s Beet Soup: A Recipe for Slow Reading

A nourishing, vibrant broth for slow January days, inspired by the travels of Lesley Blanch The…

The Ritual of Reading: A 2025 Reflection on Slowness and Intention

When Creation Becomes Listening There’s a particular moment at the end of the year when I feel…

The Magic of Maurice Maeterlinck’s The Blue Bird

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 24 Do you remember what it felt like to believe in magic? Not…

Chicons au Gratin: Belgian “White Gold”

There is something almost poetic about a vegetable that requires absolute darkness to find its…

The Art of Presence: Celebrating the Everyday with Colette Nys-Mazure

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 22 The ritual begins before the first sip—before the tea even…

A Winter Solstice of Togetherness: Flemish Brown Cafés & the Art of Gezelligheid

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 21 The winter solstice is one of the most meaningful moments of…

Vlissinghe Christmas Eve Soup

Germaine Absalon owned Café Vlissinghe in Bruges in the 1950s, and by all accounts, she ran it with…

Marie Gevers’ Madame Orpha: A Hidden Belgian Literary Classic

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 20 I’m sitting here with a cup of tea and a brand new copy…

Liège Christmas Market & the Perfect Liège Waffle

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 19 After Ghent’s golden towers and Bruges’ brass…

Le Mariage de Mademoiselle Beulemans | A Belgian Comedy That Still Makes Us Laugh

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 18 I’m imagining myself sitting in a Brussels brasserie…

Bruges Noir, Pieter Aspe and Belgian Crime Fiction

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 17 I’m standing at the edge of the Minnewater—the Lake of…

The Soul of the Praline: A Guide to the Culture and Ritual of Belgian Chocolate

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 15 There’s a particular madness that overtakes you in…

Maigret’s Christmas: Georges Simenon and the Art of the Atmospheric Mystery

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 14 I’m starting today with a cup of coffee—a scented Irish…

A Lace and Ice Christmas: Honoring Belgian Heritage on the Tree

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 13 In Belgium, the tree doesn’t come out immediately after…

The Art of the Failure: A Review of ‘Cheese’ by Willem Elsschot

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 12 As I wandered through the Christmas market in Bruges, the air…

Ghent and Waterzooi: A Journey Through the Flavors and History of Flanders

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 11 There’s a particular quality to Belgian light in…

War and Turpentine by Stefan Hertmans: The Art of Gentle Witness

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 10 Do you remember when you learned how to look at art? Who was…

Maison Hannon: A Masterpiece of Art Nouveau Architecture in Brussels

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 9 You cannot speak of Belgium without speaking of Art Nouveau…

Les Catilinaires by Amélie Nothomb: A Defense of Solitude

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 8 There’s a particular tyranny in the modern insistence…

Tropismes: Discovering the Most Beautiful Bookshop in Brussels

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 7 There are places in Brussels where the past doesn’t…

The Soul of the Beguinage: Eric-Emmanuel Schmitt’s Three Women in a Mirror

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 6 There are countries you love because you were born in their…

Sinterklaas Traditions: The History and Ritual of Belgian Speculoos

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 5 It wouldn’t be December 5th at The Ritual of Reading if…

Authentic Belgian Speculoos Recipe: The Traditional Spiced Cookie

On the eve of Saint Nicholas, Belgian children place their shoes by the fireplace, hoping to wake up…

Bruges-la-Morte: A Literary Journey into the Soul of Bruges

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 4 “Every town is a state of mind, a mood which, after only…

Belgian Winter Landscapes: Exploring Flemish Art at the Royal Museum of Fine Arts

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 3 I grew up in Europe’s Eastern-continental climate in the late…

Marguerite Yourcenar’s The Abyss: A Literary Journey through 16th-Century Bruges

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 2 Have you ever watched a flame flicker and felt, for a moment…

Discovering Belgium: A Literary & Cultural Journey

Belgian Advent Calendar – Day 1 Welcome back, dear friends, to the fifth edition of our Advent…

A Woman Alone in Paris: Lessons from French Writers

My Parisian Ritual for Embracing Solitude…

The Women Who Wrote Paris : 5 French Female Authors You Need to Read

Discover the Voices That Shaped French Literature on Their Own Terms…

It’s a Woman’s Paris: November Literary Mood Board

Let’s Talk About Female Authors November has arrived wrapped in wool and melancholy, and Paris…